Learning Moments Made Simple: Nurturing Friendships

Most of us understand the profound impact that social development has on a child's overall well-being. The ability to form friendships and navigate social interactions is a crucial aspect of childhood. So today, we’re exploring the concept of peer-mediated support. This powerful strategy works by giving children the social skills they need to engage and connect with friends.

Unlocking the Potential of Peer-Mediated Support

Peer-mediated support is a pathway to building inclusive and supportive environments for children. By imparting specific social skills, we empower children to play with friends facing social challenges, fostering a sense of belonging, understanding, and friendship.

The Significance of Social Development

Research highlights the importance of early social skills and friendships in predicting positive outcomes for children, both socially and academically. Teaching children how to initiate play with their peers not only encourages friendships but also allows them to bond through socializing.

Practical Steps for Adult Guidance

Here are practical steps for adults to implement peer-mediated support, nurturing positive social interactions among children:

Step 1: Teach Basic Social Skills

When your child is with other children, encourage them to:

  • Get a peer's attention, like tapping a friend's arm or saying their name

  • Share by giving an object, whether it's a toy or snack

  • Share by asking for an object

  • Give compliments

  • Give play instructions

After introducing these skills, provide opportunities for children to practice and demonstrate them.

Step 2: Encourage Skill Application

Encourage children to use these newly acquired social skills during activities, like playdates or mealtimes. Creating a supportive environment for skill application is key to making this a part of your child’s routine!

Step 3: Praise Positive Behavior

Reinforce positive behavior by praising children each time you observe them practicing social skills with their peers. Positive attention helps to motivate your child to continue that behavior!

Check out even more great tips on how to incorporate learning into your everyday routine with the Administration for Children & Families’ guide here.

Matt Whitman